In the rest of this article I’m going to share a few tips with you when it comes to dating.

The first thing to remember is not to jump in head first. Your date may not want the same things that you want. So it’s important to take things slowly because they may want different things.

So because of this when you first start dating someone just take it easy and don’t expect the person to suddenly become infactuated or fall in love with you.

Communication is a must when you’re dating. If you don’t communicate you’ll never know what each other wants out of the relationship. You may want marriage and they may want a quick fling. If you don’t communicate you’ll never know.

Trust your date straight away. If they break it then you know that they’re not someone you want to be with. But it’s better to be open and trusting to get the ball rolling. But that doesn’t mean be a pushover.

The most important thing in a relationship and in dating is respect. Respect your date and expect just as much respect in return. If they do not respect you then again that’s not somebody you should be with. And if you do not show them respect then do not expect them to stick around.

Probably one of the most important tips when it comes to dating is to be yourself. Never tell silly lies to make yourself sound more exciting or important.

It’s extremely important for the future of the relationship that you do not tell lies and always be yourself. If you’re not yourself and you tell lies then the relationship will be based on a lie and could never last.

Besides if they don’t like you for who you are then again thats not someone who you want to be with. So just be yourself.

So remember these dating tips for the next time you you are on a date.

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1. Worrying About The Results – Do you want a guaranteed way to creep women out? Just decide you have to under any circumstance get a woman. No matter what you say or do around this woman, you will be seen as creepy and scary. This is because you will be stressed out and tense. The exact opposite of creepy is “charming and attractive”. The way to get this is to complete shut off any goal when talking to women. Your only goal is to just be there, talk to her, see what she’s like. You don’t care if you get a woman or not. You are just being a social guy and having fun.

2. Act-as If – This is one of my favorite techniques. It makes women feel at ease, and makes it a lot easier for you to get women. Just put yourself in the role of a friend or an acquaintance. What I mean by this is that when you see a woman, you walk up to her as-if you’ve known her for years. Not as a guy who’s looking to pick her up, but as a guy who she went to high school with or a neighbor from her old neighborhood. I mean just have that attitude and talk and act as if you’ve known her for years. Literally convince yourself you’re just saying hi to an old friend, or having a chat with a good old friend. What will happen here is that she’ll relax and feel at ease, and so will you. This makes getting women a lot easier.

3. Just Being Social – I might be repeating a point here, but you really want to be desire-less when getting women. If you approach women with an intent of “Oh wow, I have to get a number here!” it will just fail. The best mindset I have found is to treat it as “just socializing”. You’re not trying to pick up women, you’re not trying to get women. You are just being social. You’re going around, having fun, meeting people (some of whom happen to be hot women), and you could care less if it leads to more than friendship. I mean of course, you are conscious of any signs that the woman wants something more, and you make use of them. But you treat them more like a bonus, rather than something you must have.

My recommendation for you is to basically use all these 3 recommendation in concert. If you do, you will find they work really great for getting women, in a really easy, effortless way that works. Every player I know tends to use these 3 and enjoys having that lifestyle.

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The thing most guys miss about pick up lines is that the words matter least. I can say the exact same line to the exact same girl, and get two completely different results. Why? Because of how I approached her, the location, the timing, whether she was approachable at that moment or not, did the line suit the moment or not. You see, when the factors are right, almost any line, no matter how stupid, will work well! And when the time or place is wrong, no line will work!

The way to get it right, is to have your eyes open. Girls have a time and place they want to be approached in. Trust me, you will know. You have this intuition to know when a girl is open to being approached. She will show it in how she acts, or if she keeps glancing over in your direction. This is when a girl is waiting to be approached, by you.

This also includes situations like a girl who just happens to be standing next to you as you’re watching paintings in the gallery. Or that cute girl who always seems to look at you an extra second when checking out your order. Girls you can just “feel” there’s something with them. This is where you can try out some of the cute pick up lines.

1.) Wow, your smile just made my day, have we met yet?

2.) I have a question (as you hold a big, cheesy grin), do you get a lot of cute, random guys approaching you and trying to meet you?

3.) I’ve noticed you many times, and you have a very elegant style, do you work in the fashion industry or something?

4.) You know what I’ll be doing later? I’ll be annoying my friends with stories about meeting this cute girl at the park (or wherever you two are).

The most important thing I want you to get out of this text is that I’m just giving you examples. These are just examples of what an approach could end up looking. Do not memorize one of these lines word-for-word, go out, and just recite it to the first girl you see. Remember that it has feel natural. You want to say something “like this” when the right situation arises and it feels just right.

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He couldn’t quite figure out if confidence really is that important to women. Are nice guys failing with women because they’re nice, or because they’re shy? Is it a lack of confidence that makes nice guys fail with women!

My answer to him? Yes of course! A very firm and solid yes!

If you ask me, I think niceness has nothing to do with nice-guys failing with women. All nice guys I’ve met lacked confidence. I’ve yet to meet a nice guy who’s also confident, secure charming and charismatic. There’s a few women shyness creates failure with women.

1) Women don’t see shyness in men

Are there women who genuinely dislike shyness in men? Sure, there are women like that. But with most women, its not the shyness they mind. What they mind is how a guy acts when he is shy.

When you are shy, you actually end up acting in ways she misinterprets as being arrogant, jerk-like and cold. She literally doesn’t know its possible for a man to be shy around her. She’s too busy worrying about her own insecurities. So when you don’t ask her out due to shyness, she blames herself, never even assuming you might be shy.

2) All dating requires both parties to play the courtship ritual

Yes, just like animals, we too have a mating ritual. This ritual requires that males do certain things, and women do others. Shyness screws up this ritual on both sides, but mostly the male side.

Women don’t hate shy guys or nice guys, they hate when the ritual or romantic process is ruined by what seems to them like weird behavior. One of these weird behaviors is not displaying interest or escalating the process forward (what women expect men to do).

Nice guys don’t show direct, sexual interest in women, and they tend not to initiate the romantic process or bring it forward.

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Let’s face it, most guys will remain clueless like this. Most guys will not come out of the idea of being innocent and staying safe with their conversations. I think the main reason for this is that they fear the girl will see them as being too pushy. But this is not really a legitimate fear because…

A) Women who get offended by flirting are usually unattractive and extremely rare.

B) If she doesn’t like it, she’s the type of person who’d have found fault with you no matter what you said, and no matter how safe it is.

C) The truth is, women do like to test and challenge men, if you can’t pass her BS tests, she does not see you as a “real man”.

The best way I’ve found of starting to move away from innocent topics to the more chemistry-building ones… is innuendo. The trick is that you need to realize that women think about hooking up as much as we do, and at certain times even more. What this will allow you to realize is that you can bring getting physical into a conversation. If you have any social calibration at all though, you realize you can’t do that directly and just start talking about hook ups all at once… or even worse, you and her having one. That’s just crude and will offend most women.

So how do you do this? Well, a lot of this is intuitive and you need to relax, start joking around and being comfortable with women. The banter will come out on its own. But a technique I can share with you right now is the “someone else” trick. This is where you mention a funny hookup story from, and relating to SOMEONE else. So as you’re talking, if something that’s mentioned applies… You relate it to a funny story about your friend that involves hooking up or something physical.

Again, the key is introducing and discussing hooking up in a non-threatening way.

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So you’re living your life right? You go about your day, you might be feeling positive, or you might be in a bad mood, and then it happens… As you’re standing in the supermarket aisle… the cutest girl you’ve seen in weeks passes by you and stands 5 feet from you, looking at some products. She might even go so far as to smile at you as she passes by. What do you do? If you’re like most guys, you start making excuses on why you can’t approach her.

By the time all of this goes by, she’s walked off, and you’ve missed your chance. You go home, feeling defeated and like a loser because you didn’t say anything, blaming yourself and feeling like a loser.

Well, I have a secret to reveal to you, it doesn’t have to be this way, and I know because I’ve helped hundreds of guys overcome this over the years, and over-time I’ve managed to extract and isolate the key elements of doing this. Here they are in order of importance:

Be Positive

So you’re thinking “Ok dude, that sounds all good, but, don’t you have anything more concrete than that?” And my answer is this – it works! Just picture this for a second: You walk into a bar with 3 hot female friends and 2 super cool buddies. You immediately start bantering and joking around with the females in your group… as you’re dancing, and as you’re having fun. You walk around the bar and greet anyone you even remotely know and introduce yourself to people. Guess what happens when a cute girl walks by? There is not a second of doubt in your mind! You’re already running around and being fun and social!

So yes, it sounds all new-age and woo-woo, I realize this… But it does work as simply as that! You just walk up there, and say hi to her. Why? Because that’s what you’ve been doing all night! You don’t even think about it. Its just your next person to talk to.

Be Zen-Like

Have you ever heard women describing guys as being creepy or pushy? Ever heard the disdain in their tone when they describe? Do you want to know what causes a guy to come across this way? Its all about having a goal. If you have this goal that you “must” get laid, must get her number, must get a date… You will come across as creepy and pushy.

What women want is to feel like everything is natural. “It just happened” – is the story they want to retell. They want it so that you two meet, with no expectations, no goals… And you just talk, chat and be social. Make this your actual outcome. Your only outcome should be “Hey, she looks cool, I’ll go up, socialize a bit, and see what she’s like”. Anything more than this will cause creepiness (unless you’re Brad Pitt or her exact type)…

Never Get Rejected, Get Tons Of Friends

Now, the part I really love about having no outcomes in your mind when approaching women… Is that, you never ever get rejected. You will go and socialize with the woman, and if shes’ not interested in you (you’re not her type, she’s married), she will politely opt out of the romantic opportunity. You are still friends though.

Isn’t this the same as a rejection? Nope. Remember, your only goal was to introduce herself and see if the interest is mutual. You actually gain a friend, and that’s awesome! You know why? Women that are your type tend to have friends who are similar This means she’ll introduce you to some of them later or at another time. Think long-term. Next time you come to this club, you have a really attractive woman running up to greet you, and that’s of huge value.

Have Female Friends

This is by far my most favorite way of introducing your attractiveness. You see, women have some evolutionary glitches. They are programmed to get attract to a guy who they see has female friends (the more, the better). With the method I introduced you to in step 2, you not only eliminated rejection, you also get tons of new friends! When you walk up to a woman just wanting to socialize… You either hit it off and do more… Or you end up as friends.

Guess what, a) women love setting up their friends and b) the number one most attractive trait you can have is being surrounded by women. Walking into a club with 5 hot female friends only increases your odds of picking up other women a factor of at least 20.

This is really all it comes down to. I know this guide sounds a bit too simple to be true. But it really is that simple, you just need to apply this stuff.

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While meeting someone by chance is very romantic (and very very very rare), ladies can take advantage of the following benefits of looking for love online.

Determine Communication Prowess Early On – Since much of the process of online dating is writing emails and video chatting, good communication is an invaluable skill. Men that can communicate well during the courting process will make for better relationship material. Make sure you weigh this factor in your decision to move forward with someone. However, be ready for a barrage of jerky behavior and obscenities, as online dating also makes people less inhibited.

Less Pressure and More Flexibility – The good news is that for most of the online dating process you don’t ever have to get dolled up, wear makeup or even leave the comfort of your pajamas. Online dating gives women on the go the flexibility to engage in as much or as little communication at any given time. Email correspondence can be sent when you have time. Video mail and text messages allow you to communicate when it’s convenient. Video chats can be scheduled around work schedules. Also, you can avoid awkward first dates by already having something to discuss in person after corresponding for a few weeks.

Access to All the Fish in the Sea – Online dating expands your dating pool as wide as you are willing to expand it. Want to find someone in England, Japan, Dominican Republic? You can. International dating Websites allow you to fully explore singles from all over the World and make your soul mate search more exhaustive. Your soul mate may not live in your city or state. Making a meaningful connection with someone across the World may seem scary and impossible, but thousands of people have met their other half this way. Call it a Worldwide romantic scavenger hunt!

Don’t Give Out Your Information – “Can I have your email?” “What’s your phone number?” There are questions you don’t have to answer on many reputable online dating sites. Many services offer you private emails, chats and even phone calling features. This way, if you meet someone you don’t click with, you don’t have to worry about them calling you or showing up at your apartment uninvited.

Online dating is the 21st century’s way of telling you that the World is your oyster. Get online and get to searching for your soul mate, no matter where he may be. Be safe and may love find you online.

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While men aren’t supposed to show their feelings, if you have a trusted friend, it may help to talk about them. Your friend may have been through the same thing and may be able to offer you good advice. At the very least he can provide a place where you can express your feelings.

Spend time with your friends and pick up interests you may have dropped while you were with a lady. Shoot some hoops or go to a game. If you’re incline, hit a strip club. Just have some fun.

When a relationship dies, there is a void and and keeping busy helps to fill it. Your friends can provide support and companionship while you get back into old routines.

Don’t mope around. Keep busy. Do things you didn’t have time for before your break up. Try joining a gym or getting involve in community or charity work. If you always wanted to learn to scuba dive, now is a great time. Don’t give yourself too much time to think about the hurt you are feeling. Do things that give you satisfaction and a feeling of accomplishment.

Remember that there is more to life than her, and your world will not stop without her. As much as possible do the things that you have been doing normally. Breaking up and not being able to get over her is not a valid reason to stop your wheels from turning.

Don’t think that just because you broke up with your girlfriend it’s the end of the world. It’s not. There are lots of appreciative ladies out there and one is just waiting for you. Don’t lose your perspective. If the relationship was meant to be it would have weathered any storm.

When you recover a bit, you’ll be ready to try again. The right girl is out there and you will find her. Don’t get bitter about relationships that don’t work out. If you do it will color your future relationships.

Take the time to consider what may have gone wrong with your relationship so you can avoid making the same mistakes in another relationship. It may hurt, but these hurts happen to everyone regardless of gender. Don’t get angry or bitter, that will damage new relationships you may form.

The people around you who care about you will supply emotional support and companionship after a bad break up. Take advantage of their strength and prepare to move on with your life.

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When you are alone with a woman you are attracted too, she will give you subtle signals to let you know if she returns you feelings. Watch her body language which is a good indicator of how she feels. If she leans away from you when you get close, or crosses her arms over her chest when she’s speaking to you, she probably isn’t attracted.

Most people aren’t comfortable taking the direct approach when it comes to sex. Woman are often concerned that expressing their desire may make them appear fast or loose. The signs may be subtle, so pay attention.

Some of the indicators of sexual interest are detailed here. Be careful though, sexual interest may not end in intercourse and proceeding too quickly can get you in trouble.

Women who are sexually interested will draw attention to their lips. The may bite them or lick them to bring your focus to them. Moistened lips are more attractive than dry lips and by drawing your attention to her lips, she may be inviting a kiss.

However, you may need to differentiate it from minimal lip biting, as it may signify nervousness and the likes.

If she touches your legs, or rubs her legs against yours it is usually a clear green light. If your are dancing when this occurs, it may not be as clear. If you aren’t dancing, she’s definitely interested.

There is no reason for a girl or a guy to rub his/ her legs on yours without anything in mind. This trick never fails to lead two couples into a night of passion and intimacy. Just imagining your partner’s warm and smooth legs against yours makes you excited on what’s going to happen next.

When women engage in flirting or conversation that is full of sexual innuendo, they are aware that men find such conversation stimulating. This is another way in which women create a sexual atmosphere and indicate their willingness to have sex.

If you introduce topics or sexual innuendo into the conversation and she doesn’t take the bait, you may not have the fun you were hoping for tonight. If she shies away from sexual conversation, she may not be ready to get physical.

While the signals may not always apply, they are usually signs of interest. It’s best to test each advance before proceeding. If your partner says no, stop and don’t sulk.

If she’s sending mixed signals, tonight may not be the night, but there is hope for love at a later date.

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Dating disasters come in all kinds and varieties. What if the guy who you went out with on your most recent date was a cheapskate? Yes, we know that you don’t need to have $1 million to be happy, but if you happen to meet a guy who is on the opposite end of the spectrum, it can be decidedly unpleasant. We should all be careful during this type of economy, but there is a way that a girl should be treated and most especially on a first date, impressions count.

Steer clear of a dramatic guy if you don’t want to engage in a dating disaster with him. You need somebody well-rounded and balanced and not someone who likes to talk about gossip and other people’s misfortunes. If he hangs around with people who are overly dramatic and give rise to this kind of story, then he is in the wrong circles for you, so be careful.

As girls, we are often accused of being too needy, but sometimes you will come across a guy who is exactly that. This is not a very endearing trait in a guy, is it? If he is overly eager to talk to you on a regular basis, to the point of getting annoying, then he probably has some dating disasters and skeletons in his closet as well, or is maybe afraid of rejection, or both.

It’s always the case if something appears to be too good to be true, then it is. If you think you have found a guy unlike any other, then this overly confident and unusually strong man may be hiding something. Be careful that his smooth exterior is not hiding affairs with other girls.

There’s nothing wrong being assertive in a business or professional situation, but the self-righteous guy in a personal situation can be ready to set up a dating disaster. Just watch to see if he starts to criticize everything and everyone, constantly.

Many of us have come across the guy with “God’s gift” to women. He might think that he is able to move past all the pleasantries and on to the intimate details in short order. This kind of guy needs to be in your past as soon as possible. Just be polite and firm and move on.

It could be a rite of passage and it may be that we all have to deal with dating disasters just so that we well primed to meet the right guy eventually. We will be stronger due to our experiences and when we meet the girls for a nice drink on a Friday evening, we will have a lot to laugh about!

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