Asked: I met this guy when i was 20 and he was 28 in 2009. we were both involved, but i was i a process of …

up with my boyfriend as things were hectic between us and i did. the guy i met was having a long distance relationship with his girlfriend as he was in gauteng ant she in bloemfontein.things were fine until one day i saw their picture together in his bedroom, i asked him about it and then he apologised. he kept doing the same thing over and over again, then i asked him if he really loves me why keeping his girlfriends pipctures in front of me? then he answered a picture is just a picture.in 2010 5 days before valentines day i bumped into him with his girlfriend and then he told sent me a sms saying the gal suprised her, i was angry and told him not to call me again then we broke up.last year in june he called me and asked that we meet as he has something important to tell me, i agreed.when we met he told me that the reason why that happened was because his girlfriend fell pregnant but sadly got miscarriage, he told me they're living together but he still loves me and a part of him will always loves me,he tried to kiss me severall times but i pushed him away, i told him the reason why he came to see me was that he wanted to manipulate me, i told him that i do not want nothing to do with him. this year in january he kept on calling me and i ignored his calls as i told him not to call me again. i then sent him an sms asking why did he call then he said he wants us to meet again, i agreed as i felt i was being hush to him, its been 2 weeks now he hasn't called, what should i do? please help. anynomous

Suspicious Asked: Guys Only Please!!! What does he want from me?

Hey guys. I've had more then enough female advise on my situation so I'm after a guys opinion. (girls I'd appreciate it if you refrain from responding!)

The guy and I talk 24/7 weather it's texting, calls or physically seeing each other. He has a girlfriend. He says things about wanting a relationship with me and calls me pet names like georgous or his angel. He has also expressed that he is absolutly madly in love with me and wants to marry me. I know he is unhappy in his relationship and he doesn't think he loves her but he hasn't left her either. (If he leaves her he looses a lot ie friends, home, job & money/assets this is not what he has ever said to me I have been friends with him for a bit so I know this for a fact) I've noticed he is becoming more unhappy every week that passes and I can't do anything but watch. I am trying to support him as much as possible without trying to influence his Descsion (obviously I want to be with him).
Is he stringing me along? Using me?
I have actually asked him what he wants from me, he said friendship. I asked if he was using me he said no and he just genuinely enjoys my company. But he also tells me he wants to be with me and is confused about how he feels for me and confused about how I feel for him because he is not single…

Any comments guys?

Mark Micallef Asked: What do you think guys,is it possible AGAIN?

So basically , this is the situation :

I have been in a relationship with this guy for the last three months but we were having a lot of arguments about stupid things such as texting.His replies were always late and I hated that.This is
not only there reason why we broke up.The thing was that it was always me who wants to meet up
and stuff.I felt that from his side he had no interest in me.

We broke up and lost contact for like three to four weeks and now yesterday we spend a day together and it was fun ( he had texted me the day before to meet up )

As I can see this guy wants me as a friend.But I still LOVE him.I think about him everytime and I really feel like kissing him so badly.Yesterday he sounded that between us there is NO HOPE for a relationship but only for a good friendship.But how would I feel if I see him dating another guy? Any
tips how I can keep him ONLY as a friend? What if we have a good friends , can we be in a long term relationship again and would it be better? The first attempt , I felt that I didn't know him that much and we were committed very fast.But what about a good friendship first , does it help? what could happen?

Pete Asked: Girlfriend – Please help me?

I was dating a girl and we broke up because she is nervous of being involved with someone after her ex-bf treated her badly.

We were in a play together and so we saw each other a lot, hung out and texted. On the last night of the play, she kissed me after saying she just wanted to be friends. She always said how great I was and now she is saying she loves me and that she really wants to keep seeing me now that the play is over. I am very confused because technically we haven't gotten back together.

She scared of starting something in case it ends badly, in case we don't have anything in common.

What should I do? What should I think?