Creative Dating Ideas – A Date to Remember
Posted By Sally Webb on June 27, 2009
First of all, I believe that women can, and should, come up with creative dating ideas as well. Really, too many women think it’s completely up to their dates to come up with the ideas, and they just follow along with it. But did you know that as a woman, coming up with the great dating ideas can give you the edge with men including making the date fun, one of a kind, and most importantly, it will make HIM come back for more.
After all, he won’t come back for more creative dating ideas, try to get them off you (You know, so that he seems to be more creative on his next dates), but because going on memorable dates will naturally create some kind of attraction to each other. Just know that many times people actually think of other person when they are NOT with them. And did you know what will give you the advantage of being ‘thought of’ more? Of course it’s the memorable dates itself.
Ok, lets first rule out the widely known big three: movie, dinner and drinks. They are so not special in any way that if your man is quite a ladies man (just pretend that every guy is popular before you actually get him down into a relationship), the date becomes average that the focus is solely making a connection based on the conversation alone. Trust me, it can be done, but you’d rather make it easier on yourself, especially if you are one of those people who get nervous on first dates.
So what are some of the creative dating ideas?
Try things that involve actions for example walking, golf, or snorkeling. Different from women, men tend to get closer to each other by doing stuff together. No he doesn’t have to talk, and not only that, activity actually gets him more excited that he would associate the feeling with YOU. Of course, you can always have a real conversation such as having coffee in between your activities, this will get you what you crave.
Of course I don’t expect women to like sport so much – some are really anti sport, and if you are one of them, then here are some more creative dating ideas that would be a little easier for you. Try laser skirmish or if your man actually play sport himself, go and watch him play. That will work well because he will feel so cool in front of you by being able to do something he is good at. You don’t even have to actually compliment him with words.
Not only that, you can always go for other creative dating ideas that are even less extreme. You can try this (This works for one of my friend SO well). Imagine you are a tourist in the country that you live in, then go for a stroll close to the water while looking at the night scenery. You can even be more creative and catch the ferry or water taxi while you are at it.
If you are stuck with ideas though. Try the high rise building. Most places would have some kind of observatory where you can enjoy scenery from up above. Height always work because height has something to do with people’s adrenaline level. One thing to remember though, you must like the creative dating ideas you’ve came up with, because YOU will do them with him. You want to have a fun time too during dates because there is nothing more attractive than a woman who is having a really good fun.
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