When Women Put You In The Friend Zone
Posted By Dana Goldberg on July 7, 2009
You love her with all your heart, are always there for her, bear all her moods and are always her partner in crime. But, somehow, you’re stuck in the friend zone. She looks at you but not that ways and she smiles at you but not the way you’d prefer. Hours on the phone, hours spent together and hours spent thinking about each other still keep you stuck with the best buddy badge. Time you made your move and here’s how how to escape the friend zone by mastering the 5-A technique to her heart.
Affection: Point is, if you’re going to behave like a buddy, you will remain one. Add a little flirty flavor to your affection. Be sweet and nice yet, pepper your conversations and actions with enough naughty angles to get the signals going strong and straight. Body language is one of the easiest way to do so. A flirty touch on the hair or a tap on the shoulder can get your message across faster than words.
Availability: Being there for your girl in the good and bad times is the done thing. But how about being a “little caught up” from time to time. Play the waiting game and give the message that you are actually busy but make great effort to take out time to be with the girl in your life. Don’t try the trick in real crisis situations though.
Attraction: Work on it. Look good, dress well, smell awesome and dazzle your girl. Not everyone’s the next Hollywood around but you can still pay attention to your personality and build on it. Attraction is the key feature between those of the opposite sex even in Nature.
Attention: You know virtually everything about your lady love but have you paid attention to her thoughts and ideas about romance and sex. Have you led her to one of those topics in your conversations. Direct her attention on the right path. As for yourself, pay attention to how she dresses and looks and don’t hesitate to comment on that.
Add another woman: This is tough but one of the most successful tips on how to get out of the friend zone. Whether it’s a cousin or colleague, try and get another woman in the picture. You don’t have to necessarily be seen going out with another woman but try talking a little extra about another girl. Drop the name of the ‘bait’ often and mention stuff about the ‘bait’. This is sure to get the jealous lights blinking and you can push your case by eventually “dumping” this other woman!
However, don’t ignore your instincts. They are the best judge to tell you whether there is any scope of a woman eventually getting attracted to you or not. If she is already contemplating someone else or, acting just too smart, and you feel she cannot be hooked, quit wasting time.
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