Reading A Guy Can Be Fun
Posted By Nigel Evans on July 11, 2009
Sometimes a guy can be so frustrating. He will say one thing and mean another, or you expect him to act one way and he does the complete opposite. How do you know if you are reading a guy correctly? You may not be ready for a trip to the bookstore to pick up some volumes about body language, but there are nevertheless some easy to comprehend signs that you need to look for when you are with your love interest.
When a man flexes his muscles in your presence, it is a sign that he is trying to impress you. Many people reckon that he is exhibiting something that you might have seen in the animal kingdom or even some sort of primeval display.
You can tell if a guy is really interested in you by watching him when you talk to him. Experts say that if he holds his head to one side, this is a sign that he is very interested in you and not just what is coming from your mouth.
You can really become good at reading a guy if you look at how he holds himself in your presence. Standing with legs apart and facing you, his body language exhibits that he is being territorial. Don’t worry though, he won’t act like a lion and attack any other member of the male sex — but he is being very serious about you!
Making eye contact is a good way to behave, as we are taught from an early age. In terms of reading a guy’s behavior, this can be a clear sign. If he does not look at you either when you are talking or when he is talking to you, or he avoids your stare, then you know this is a bad omen. Behavior like this on a regular basis means that you should try and get to the bottom of the problem and see if you can find out what is amiss.
A man can display his true feelings for you by holding your hand a certain way. If he intertwines his fingers with yours and holds your hand firmly when you are together, he is being very serious about the relationship.
Touching, as in finding every opportunity to brush against you, is another sign of affection and can be a good clue when you are reading a guy’s motives. We only have to look at our house pet see a display of affection in this way, as your cat will want to rub his or her face against you as often as possible, especially at meal time!
Study the body language of your partner and learn a lot about reading a guy quite quickly. It will not be possible for him to fake most of these subtle signals and you can therefore read a lot into his actions
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